Summer is here and despite the odd rain shower we've had, this one is set to be a mega hot one! With all that in mind it's no surprise that we're reaching for our shorts, dresses and maxi skirts...
This year I have decided that on my quest to push my confidence and embrace myself further, I would be brave and head out without any coverage of my arms. For those of you who are new to my blog; my arms are my problem area (lord knows we all have one) I have always felt more at ease without them on show. Having said that I've started to get to the point where I'm not sacrificing my comfort in order to cloak myself. I used to wear boleros, jackets and shrugs in the blazing hot sun and would put a brave face on the situation and pretend I was absolutely fine when in truth; I would be on a constant search for the nearest store to relieve myself in the heat by reaching for the nearest cold drink!
I won't pretend that it's easy for me to ditch my usual cover ups though, I still feel more comfortable with them but I am doing what I can to just face those little fears head on and not let my personal hang ups ruin my day. As I recently mentioned, pushing my limits is helping me to gain more self confidence.
It's no secret that I really like animal prints in clothing and so I just had to have this amazing maxi shirt from Primark size 20. Unfortunately this is from a previous season but there may be something similar coming in stores soon. Keep you eyes peeled you never know what you can find in Primark.
I thought it would be cool to pair this with a simple black cami from New Look Inspire size 20. I think sometimes being comfortable can still make for a cool outfit. I didn't want to go overboard with accessories either so I thought I'd pair this look with my twisted gold hoop earrings, lovely necklace and simple ballerina shoes. I'll most definitely be wearing looks like this one over the next few weeks. Not only is it a seasonal style, it'd lend itself well to days out on the beach or relaxed walks in the summer sunshine.
Have a look through your wardrobe and see what you may have in there. You'll be surprised what you have that might just be suited to this hot weather. Whatever you decide to wear have fun with it and play around I'm sure you'll be pleasantly surprised with the results.
Keep smiling!
Why should you hide? You look amazing hun and I love this outfit. Love the shoes!!! Are they from Primark too? I've seen some similar ones there... Oh and I almost forgot to say, I love your hair!!! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks honey that's really sweet of you. You know how it is we all have those moments when the confidence is affected but it feels good to just think ahh whatever I'm just gonna do this!
DeleteYou are so cute! I still struggle with the arm thing too but I continue to work with it, ditching the shrugs when the weather dictates. Love the blog and your breezy style. I'm a fan!
ReplyDeleteHi Juliette thanks for such a sweet message. Like I said in the post my arms are my problem area for me but at the end of the day they are a part of me and everyone else can see exactly how they look anyway so I need to learn to be more comfortable with them on show, it's all my head lol.
DeleteI hope you feel more at ease yourself when you're picking out your clothes xx
I know exactly what you mean. I can't remember the last night I wore something sleeveless out of the house. I look at you and I think 'why does she care? There's nothing wrong with her arms!' and then I go and cover up with a cardi in the summer too! x
ReplyDeleteThanks for such a sweet comment Charlie. I think the problem is that we push our own worries and insecurities about ourselves on to other people. I guess the worry is others making a deal about the things you dislike. As it stands I no longer care about that stuff but it takes longer for your confidence levels to catch up with your head lol.
DeleteI'm sure you look amazing in your sleeveless bits x